In the January Issue:
Being in our feminine flow is something that has been trampled on and made fun of over the years. Sometimes it may feel like we don't even know what it means to be feminine anymore!
When I was a struggling entrepreneur for seven years, I was operating in my masculine energy, which caused me to essentially be stuck, and metaphorically bang my head against a wall. Being in a masculine flow was not my natural state.
It wasn't until I learned how to be in a receiving energy flow that allowed me to naturally ATTRACT the things I wanted to me, rather than trying to MAKE things happen for me.
I think, for most of us, we are programmed by society to operate in our masculine energy, but this is actually catastrophic for us as women and those who identify as women. The main things we need in order to thrive are: safety, security, feeling grounded and stability. When we don't feel these things, this is where we start to go into our masculine energy. And the results of that can be catastrophic.
So here are some ways we can operate in our feminine flow in our business, to naturally attract more of what we want, so we can thrive!
Creating content that’s helpful, and showcases our own personality.
For me, I notice my best results when it comes to views, and attracting more clients, are when I showcase my own original ideas as a content creator. If you’re not creating content on social media, get started now and be consistent with your posts! Create content you’re passionate about, and show your followers a good amount of your life outside of just business stuff. They want to connect with the person behind the business.
Knowing our values and our standards.
I’ve learned this is particularly important in business. Those who don’t have values or standards in their business tend to be run over by clients, and they feel stressed out and overwhelmed. Setting proper boundaries in place, and knowing what’s acceptable in your life, and what’s not, is really helpful. For example: If a client is unbelievably rude to your staff member, and then they try to come back for services, don’t let them!
Trusting the Universe to give us what we need
For me, this was particularly difficult. I had many trust issues, and now to top it all off I have to trust the Universe? But, it’s so true. When we put trust into the Universe, we are in receiving mode and ready to receive and attract all of the things we want in our lives.
Instead of operating from a place of lack (especially if this is what you’re used to in your life) we then put it in the Universe’s hands (or God’s hands, for some) and we say, “I’m going to align my actions with what I want, and I’m going to trust that you’re going to guide me to the right places, people, and events.” You won’t believe the huge shifts that happen in your life when you do this.
Self forgiveness
It’s so easy to beat ourselves up for mistakes we made, opportunities we missed, and regrets we have. I encourage you to find ways to forgive yourself, and let that old energy go that is no longer serving you. It’s time to put up energetic boundaries with things that no longer serve us. It’s time to let go and be free!
