In the June Issue:
So, you’re ready to trade your mediocre life for a Magnificent one? I’m on a mission to help women stop playing small and hiding behind their people-pleasing tendencies. It’s time to light your fire so you can lead with your beautiful servant heart, maximize your potential, and live life on purpose! Gah!! I get chills just thinking about it!
You’re already perfect and amazing. And if you feel that calling inside, that sizzle that’s ready for a spark…answer it! You’re not alone in feeling like you don’t know where to start. So let’s dive in.
Do You Even Have a Purpose?
I hear this question a lot. So many women (and men) I talk to feel like maybe they just don’t have a meaningful purpose, because they’re just regular people, with no real skills and no big dreams.
What I believe is actually happening is, you’re letting the overwhelm of life and the ideas and wants of society, or people that have had some authority in your life, take control of your purpose. Basically, you’re finding external excuses or things and people to blame for your internal struggle and lack of clarity on how to make the most of your life. It’s time to stop this.
Discover Your Passions
Here’s where you start. Seems kinda obvious, but so many people struggle to uncover what they're actually passionate about. Especially women. We get lost in our naturally caring personalities, and our whole life starts to revolve around everyone else. Time to take it back…and I promise it’ll enhance the value you bring to all the people around you.
Finding what I’m passionate about has always been really hard. So if you struggle with this too, I get it. And I encourage you even more to really discover this about yourself.
This is a journey in itself sometimes, and that’s ok. Keep learning about yourself, trying new things, and you’ll come to find your passion. It could be an activity, it could be a talent, or it could be a cause. What do you get fired up about and why? Dig deep and be brave.
Surround Yourself with Positive People
Now you’ve got to re-assess who you’re hanging out with. Studies show you’re most like the 5 people you’re around the most - are you happy with that circle?
Sometimes this can be a hard change too. What if it’s the people you live with? You might have to make some sacrifices, and set new boundaries, so you can step into the new version of yourself, and let that inspire your loved ones to rise too. In order to do this, you have to look elsewhere to find the people that will hold you to the fire and keep you accountable.
The people you hang out with will have a huge impact on your life. Be diligent and ensure your closest friends and family are positive, supportive, and believe in you. This will give you the confidence and motivation you need to pursue your purpose.
Celebrate Your Successes
Girls just wanna have fun, right? Celebrations are my favorite - whether it’s a birthday, a business launch, or an “I-made-it-through-the-week” kinda party, I’m all in!
And it’s time you start celebrating more too. As you focus on, and move towards, your big dream, you’ll want to acknowledge the milestones and wins along the way. And I believe there are no small wins, just big and bigger. So get used to celebrating!
5 Questions to Help you Find your Purpose
As you discover your purpose and gifts to share with the world, here are some great journaling questions. Light a candle, make some coffee, and let your heart lead your pen…
- Looking back on your life, what have been your passions and natural skills?
- What 3 things are you most proud of in your life?
- How have you made a difference in someone’s life?
- If resources and circumstances weren’t involved, how would you spend your days?
- What gets you fired up - What can you talk about for hours?
This is a beautiful journey that takes effort and dedication. Leave the mediocre stuff behind and step into your magnificent life!
MEET LISA BENAVIDEZ - SPEAKER, AUTHOR AND COACH
Success Coach, Speaker, Author and Host of The Created for More Podcast, Lisa Benavidez specializes in helping women ignite their fire and use the obstacles of life to fuel their success.
With over 20 years of experience working with high-achieving women and entrepreneurs, Lisa mentors with passion, guiding her clients to effectively strengthen and elevate their impact in the world. Lisa leads faith-focused or faith-curious women so that they can create a path to a successful life and business without sacrificing their values, boundaries and goals.
When you combine her leadership, years of experience in the online business world, and her loving compassion to meet you where you are, you’ll find Lisa will be the answer to helping you build the life of your dreams!
Connect with Lisa HERE!
